Find & Build Lasting Love
Find & Build Lasting Love is one of Karen Millon's three coaching pathways — for those who are ready to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.
Know what you want. Recognize what is healthy. Create a relationship that is lasting and that you can't wait to come home to.
By Karen Millon — Certified Professional Coach
Where You May Be Today
Prepare for, find and create a relationship you can't wait to come home to.
Perhaps you have been hurt before.
Perhaps you have decided relationships are too complicated, too painful or simply not worth the risk.
Maybe work feels safer.
You know how to succeed there.
But another part of you still wants partnership, intimacy, companionship and love.
Or you may be single, successful and ready to create a relationship that adds to — rather than complicates — the life you've built.
How We Work Together
Before you find the right relationship, it can be powerful to understand the relationships you've already experienced—and the patterns you may be carrying forward.
Together, we explore what you truly want, what you will and will not tolerate, how you show up in relationships, and what you need to learn to recognize, receive and nurture healthy love.
What you truly want
What you will and will not tolerate
How you show up in relationships
How to recognize, receive and nurture healthy love
The goal isn't simply to find someone.
It is to become ready for—and capable of sustaining—the kind of relationship you truly want.
No shame. No blame. With curiosity, awareness, skills and practice.

Amazing relationships don't simply happen.
We learn how to create them.
I eventually found healthy, lasting love again—and have now been blissfully married to my second husband for more than 13 years.
That journey taught me something I could never have learned in business school:
Client C — From Giving Up to Finding Health and Lasting Love
Client C is a successful entrepreneur who owns five businesses.
After a difficult, high-conflict marriage and divorce, followed by several unsuccessful relationships, he had reached a point where he questioned whether relationships were worth the effort at all.
He was successful in every other area of his life.
Why couldn't relationships be easier?
He decided to invest in himself.
After three months of coaching, Client C continued working with me as he began dating again and eventually entered a new relationship.
Today, he describes his relationship very differently.
He feels heard.
He feels valued.
He feels prioritized.
And most importantly, he feels happy and connected.
He has now been in the relationship for more than a year and has referred multiple people to me.
Client C didn't need help becoming more successful. He needed a relationship that felt as good as the rest of his life.
"You didn't just help me find or strengthen love. You helped me understand myself and the patterns I was carrying into relationships. You challenged me to look inward, take ownership of what was mine, and recognize what healthy love actually feels like. Because of that, I show up differently, not just in my relationship but in every area of my life. The biggest gift wasn't finding love. It was becoming the kind of person who could receive it, trust it and build on it."
Names and identifying details have been changed to protect client confidentiality. References are available upon request.
Two Ways to Begin
Private Coaching
Each client receives highly personalized, confidential weekly private sessions, practical tools, accountability and support between sessions. A white glove service to support you to get results.
Digital courses
Not everyone is ready for private coaching. These self-paced digital courses give you an opportunity to begin working toward the relationship you want on your own time.
Not Quite Where You Are?
These are three independent paths — not three steps in a process. You can enter wherever you are today.
Quick Answers
I've been hurt before. Is this pathway for me?
Is this a dating service?
Can I start this pathway after a divorce?
Ready to Feel Different at Home?
You have invested in your career. Your business. Your health. Your financial future. Your relationship is worth the investment too. Let's talk about what is happening — and what you want instead. No shame. No blame. With curiosity, awareness, skills and practice.